Title: The general conclusion...
Description: To fly the nest or to not fly the nest..
Cheebs - September 27, 2007 03:58 AM (GMT)
So, according to everyone my mom's tried using to emotionally blackmail me into obeying her, this is how it should turn out. *ROLL
My parents called me immoral for wanting to sleep at my boyfriend's house whenever I go back to that area during the weekends. *DROP
Lucy: Hasn't slept in her bed for the past 40 days. Would like my mom to stop using her to guilt me with. LIKES HER LIFE and doesn't think it's been that bad.
Bridget: Wouldn't have allowed her parents to find out in the first place (basically she would lie). Doesn't think they'd care now that she's an adult, not that she would tell them. Does not think my mom knows her life so would like her to stop using her.
Japanese girls: If they were dating, parents would let them. Otherwise they would lie.
Boyfriend: Tells me I need to confront them myself but will step in if it goes out of control.
Everyone else: Don't let my parents stand in the way of my happiness, nor should I take their bullying.
Oh what to do, what to do... *SIGH
musiqluv - September 27, 2007 09:20 PM (GMT)
*WIND......... @@ im so confused no matter how many times i read it
*DROP srry
Cheebs - September 27, 2007 10:13 PM (GMT)
So I don't protest against what my mom says, she guilt trips me by telling me "how much better my life is than everyone else's" and "would such and such a person do such things?"
These are the people she's used... *SIGH
musiqluv - September 28, 2007 12:37 AM (GMT)
ohhhh i get it now...
MY MOM DOES THE SAME THING *SHOUT
exept its more of comparing
she uses my friends as examples *DROP
shes like "omg your friend is so good, why cant yu stop whining and start acting cute and obidient like her?"
me i juss ignore my mom and do wat i want...after a while her guilt trips and comparences juss blow outta my head
thts why she calls my in my "rebellion teen stage" *AHHH
if it was you try fighting bak a little to your mom
usally my mom retreats when tht happens;; but sometimes it wont work *OMG
AngelIvory - September 29, 2007 04:14 PM (GMT)
My mum does that all the time ¬_¬
comparing me to her friends kids and stuff *grrr*
she says stuff like "they go and earn money for home and you are still here sitting in front of your computer" *SANDAL
im secretly thinking but they are like 18! im only 14! its actually illegal for me to get a full time job and many people arent taking partimers *DROP
then she compares me with her saying how when she was my age she had been earning money for 5 years and how she started working when she was 8 or something. nowadays, thats illegal *DROP
*SIGH guess if you really cant handle her anymore, talk to her about leaving the nest, if she gets all angry saying you have "wings and feathers" then say you are an adult now and you have a right to choose and go fly away...*ANGEL
bah again i wouldnt trust my advice so much cause generally, people say i meddle too much *NOOO
Cheebs - October 2, 2007 02:10 PM (GMT)
Cheebs - October 6, 2007 03:06 AM (GMT)
So, I lied to my parents last weekend about where I was...and they found out just because I took out money at a certain location and it showed up online. *DROP
applechan - October 6, 2007 05:52 AM (GMT)
wow!!! so what happen? o.o
Cheebs - October 6, 2007 07:11 AM (GMT)
I will die...maybe? *RUN
Not sure yet... *AHHH
AngelIvory - October 6, 2007 04:37 PM (GMT)
hohohoh Cheebs is going to die...
GAH dont chomp me! *RUN
*ahem* yeah im sure your parents are upset that you lied but theres nothing they can do right when you are 18 *WIPE
tell them you are an adult and you can take care of yourself
then if they counter with "well if you are an adult then move out" say "yes...but im still a child at heart, plus home is the best place ever *EYES"
musiqluv - October 6, 2007 06:31 PM (GMT)
lol thank god im still 13 *XD
Cheebs - October 6, 2007 08:22 PM (GMT)
I think they've accepted the fact that no matter what they do I'm gonna do it anyway, and I'm an adult....
My dad's such an old foggy. *SIGH
musiqluv - October 7, 2007 02:15 AM (GMT)
lol
when they yell at me it always turns into a lecture *NOOO
Cheebs - October 7, 2007 02:37 AM (GMT)
I hope they've realized that stuff doesn't work on me anymore... *SIGH
musiqluv - October 7, 2007 03:24 AM (GMT)
it works on me...i cant sit through a lecture =___=
Cheebs - October 7, 2007 06:30 AM (GMT)
*DROP Fearing your parents is not parenting. *SIGH
musiqluv - October 7, 2007 04:24 PM (GMT)
....huh *?? really i juss fear their lectures...at first i can barley understand them then i hav to nod my head a lot *RUN
AngelIvory - October 7, 2007 06:17 PM (GMT)
nod your head and smile *XD
thats what i do
but my parents are so loud it damages my ear *HEAR
musiqluv - October 7, 2007 11:31 PM (GMT)
i know usually when their done i go to my room and blast my musiq *XD
Ichigo - October 9, 2007 08:50 AM (GMT)
ohhh those lectures *shudders...my parents lectures are so0o long, not because they have a lot to say, but because THEY REAPEAT THE WHOLE DARN THING 5,326 times!!! *OMG
but yeah........if you are 18 you do have the right to make your own decesion, but if they threaten of kickin you out, suck up to them *EYES *LOL!!*
noodleprincess - October 9, 2007 05:57 PM (GMT)
Ichigo;
are you a guy? *??
SORRY IF YOUR NOT!
but i have issues with things...
*WIPE *WIPE *WIPE
musiqluv - October 9, 2007 06:11 PM (GMT)
LOL WOW SALLIE *DROP
hmm yur rite ichigo *XD but im 13 so muahahaha *POINT
AngelIvory - October 9, 2007 07:02 PM (GMT)
*XD i just noticed what ichigo's avvie is doing! sorry *cough* *WIPE
Cheebs - October 9, 2007 10:19 PM (GMT)
AngelIvory - October 9, 2007 10:27 PM (GMT)
Ichigo's avatar is that ---> =___=
but its a person *XD
Cheebs - October 10, 2007 12:22 AM (GMT)
musiqluv - October 10, 2007 01:29 AM (GMT)
LOL *XD i would have never noticed that *DROP
Ichigo - October 10, 2007 06:46 AM (GMT)
........ =___= ........................................
.................................................is deeply wounded..........................................................................
........................................................................haha im kidding*CORNER
Cheebs - October 10, 2007 07:02 AM (GMT)
Ichigo - October 10, 2007 07:19 AM (GMT)
IM NOT HURT!!!! *CORNER
......maybe I should really change my avvie to prevent this bullying *NOOO
.........haha im kidding, kidding
Cheebs - October 10, 2007 07:37 AM (GMT)
Ichigo - October 10, 2007 07:55 AM (GMT)
..............yes, so am I.....maybe we should just stop *DROP
*XD
musiqluv - October 10, 2007 11:03 AM (GMT)
AngelIvory - October 10, 2007 04:22 PM (GMT)
*WIPE
still its a cool avatar *XD
musiqluv - October 10, 2007 11:37 PM (GMT)
Ichigo - October 12, 2007 06:41 AM (GMT)
.....ahaha thanks *XD i love this pose *poses =___=
.....btw, we've gone so off topic *DROP
musiqluv - October 16, 2007 12:24 AM (GMT)
oh well, happens everytime *DUNNO
AngelIvory - October 16, 2007 03:43 PM (GMT)
yep ^^
so anyone want to fly the nest? *??
i would like to be a bit older than i am now...and stay that age forever *NOOO
too bad life is unfair *SIGH
musiqluv - October 16, 2007 07:49 PM (GMT)
we have to grow up sometimes... *RUN
smanne - November 11, 2007 02:02 PM (GMT)
i dun get it...wat do u guys mean by fly the nest?? *??