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Title: Love Problems DD:


jcamour - January 31, 2009 05:26 AM (GMT)
I have a close friend who has a gf, and we've liked each other at different times throughout our friendship. Over the summer, we met and became friends after that. Lots of bad and good included. But he's always called me "little sister" or "numero 1 lil' sis" and soon i accepted the fact that its always going to be unrequited love.

Only to find out 1 month later he has loved me. And just recently he told me that he has been thinking about being with me. The thing is we both are happy with our friendship and we wouldn't jeopardize it for anything. He told his friend that he loves me more than a sister one day but only to tell him differently a few days later.

i may have resurrected my feelings for him and thats been bothering me..
he has been adding in some comments he would normally not have said and i think im fallin for him all over again.

I DONT want to, but then i want to.
I think i'll be better with one of my friends whom i am very content with but I can't help but like my crush all over again..

Whats a girl like me to do??!!

berry - January 31, 2009 06:18 AM (GMT)
awww that's a complicated situation *RUN

i think, first off, your friend needs to make things clear with his gf--is he gonna break up with her because he's interested in you or does he still care about her? it's not fair of him to still be dating her but then to tell you (ambiguously) that he's possibly interested in you as well

so i guess what i'm saying is until he clarifies his own feelings, you should just stick to being friends

dunno if that's the best advice tho *DROP

Nekonya - January 31, 2009 04:18 PM (GMT)
Umm...I think i've answered to this kind of post in NBM *?? , anyways! *EYES

I know how you feel (about that: you don't want to like him but you kinda want to) *SIGH
I think you should be the one with you love, and I think berry is right, you should stay friends until he really clarifies his feelings to you X3

Rini - February 8, 2009 05:57 AM (GMT)
i think you guys should slowly advance forward. Not all at once, but spending more time with each other and such. Or you can go ahead and go out with each other but know that whatever happens, you will still be good friends like you have before :3



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