Title: I need help with love~
Description: *sighs* I need help~
EdwardCullen17 - April 27, 2009 01:12 PM (GMT)
*EYES Most of you know who I like ( And don't you dare say his name! *SHOUT ) So, I think it's just a wishful thinking kind of like~ *DROP
Seriously, I don't think I like him, that person isn't really the person I wish to talk to everyday~ *DROP But I think I like him as a brother~ *SIGH However, I'm a teenager and I'm confused~ @@
So, can you give me any advice for my confusion~? *EYES *EYES *EYES
Roxas500 - April 27, 2009 06:14 PM (GMT)
???????????????
who are you talking about? and yes if you have said the name before then i probally won't remember............but you need to think for some time what do you feel about him and know what he thinks about you..........
and sorry if i spelled wrong...........
EdwardCullen17 - April 27, 2009 07:34 PM (GMT)
*XD I'm talking about this guy that I used to like~ *DUNNO But I don't know if I really like him~
I'm not telling anything about him~ *MNO He's a guy, and that's all anyone needs to know~ *XD
*DROP How do I find out that I really like him~? *EYES Because I think I don't really like him that much~ *DROP Still~
vampire683 - April 27, 2009 08:04 PM (GMT)
wow ambreen you don't know ur exact feeling *OMG towards the dude. *OMG anyways. i'm no expert at these things but lets start of with a question first. so... How do you feel when ur around him *?? say what kind of girl are u anyways the out going one or the shy one tell truth k *ROLL
EdwardCullen17 - April 27, 2009 08:38 PM (GMT)
*SHY I don't feel like I exactly love him~ *XD But I do like him and want to talk to him~ However, there are some times when I feel like that I don't really like him~ *SIGH Like I shouldn't even talk to him~ *DROP I think it's a normal like~ But he doesn't like me like that~ *DROP
icecheetah - April 27, 2009 09:07 PM (GMT)
Is there anything the two of you can talk about? Common ground?
vampire683 - April 27, 2009 09:10 PM (GMT)
wow ambs you shouldn't go after him then leave him and get a new love hun
EdwardCullen17 - April 27, 2009 09:12 PM (GMT)
Yeeeessh~ However *GEEK that is for me to know only~
But still, I don't know if I should tell him or not~ *SHY Maybe I should just forget about it~ *DROP Maybe I should ask Angel to delete this topic~ *LIE
AngelIvory - April 27, 2009 09:24 PM (GMT)
I hope you read this *WIPE
Well ,one of the signs to tell if you like someone is if you constantly think about them. Even if its something small, it reminds you of them for example, with the guy i like (btw I've moved on from my graphics teacher XD) he went to New York and was talking about how amazing it was, so now every time someone mentions New York to me, I think of him and how I'd like to go there one day. Also, thinking about them spontaneously counts too. So does thinking before you go to bed. And first thing you think about when you wake up. Although I think that's more of the "love" stage.
You see, I think your problem is, you are getting "like" and "love" mixed up. You may like someone a lot and have feelings for them, but you might not necessarily "love" them yet, as saying you love someone is actually a really big step and commit, don't say you love someone when you only just like them a lot (trust me on this one), it sends mixed messages *SIGH
As for liking someone, you feel comfortable around them, you want to talk to them a lot even if you feel you shouldn't (actually if you shouldn't then you want to talk to them MORE because of it), and you just want to spend time together. This is basically the same as friends until you start to feel "chemistry" between the two of you, like you start wanting him to like you back, you start wanting to hang out with only him and you want to impress him or something along those lines.
Yeah, my best advice is, ask yourself, do you like him or not (with the chemistry), as only with recognising the problem, does the solution come. -nods-
mikariangel - April 27, 2009 09:24 PM (GMT)
wow.. such long advice angel *CHOMP
xD
ambreen.. is this who i think it is *XD *HMMM
AngelIvory - April 27, 2009 09:25 PM (GMT)
long, but good advice *CHOMP
You're still young, you'll understand one day *XD
mikariangel - April 27, 2009 09:28 PM (GMT)
one day *CHOMP
don't make me feel immature!!
all the adults go like: "you'll understand one day"
why can't i understand now *EYES
AngelIvory - April 27, 2009 09:30 PM (GMT)
I guess i just thought of you as the type who still thinks of boys as having cooties *WIPE prejudice i know....
Do you have a boy you like? *?? Cause when you do, you know the heart-wrenching bitter-sweetness of love *SIGH
mikariangel - April 27, 2009 09:32 PM (GMT)
i do *ROLL
but i'm not sure if i really like him *EYES *SIGH
it sucks.. and i think he has someone he likes too *DROP
vampire683 - April 27, 2009 09:36 PM (GMT)
that's not as bad as my friend the dude she likes likes her friend *DROP *NOOO
mikariangel - April 27, 2009 09:37 PM (GMT)
EdwardCullen17 - April 27, 2009 09:53 PM (GMT)
Thanks for the advice Angel~ *ROLL I won't give up, but I won't confess either~ *GOOD
vampire683 - April 27, 2009 10:05 PM (GMT)
MIKAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAaa it is bad. wouldn't u feel sad if u find out the guy u like likes ur friend? would u cry or be happy for ur friend *?? *OMG *RUN i wouldn't know what to do *RUN i would blank out u know *NOOO
mikariangel - April 27, 2009 11:48 PM (GMT)
i would feel happy *DUNNO
vampire683 - April 28, 2009 03:30 AM (GMT)
*SHOCK ya as if u expect me to belive that. if the one you just confessed to answer you with o i like ur friend. u would be happy *OMG no way i don't belive u, u just tryin to act cool mika *OMG *RUN *OMG *RUN *NOOO
mich2009 - April 28, 2009 05:07 AM (GMT)
*SHOCK *SHOCK *SHOCK
Mika-chan, I think if that's the case then You really don't like the guy after all ..*WIPE I mean yes.. He likes your friend and They've gone out.. but still even if you feel happy for your friend.. You shall still feel a little bit jealous if you really like him.. *WIPE *WIPE *WIPE...
*HMMM that's at least what I think seriously.. *DEAD
anyways.. Ambreen-chan..
All I can say now is liking and loving someone is really different *WIPE
Honestly, I myself may need also an advice.. because I'm also like that... *DEAD I'm confused whether I like that guy or what... I'm still not used to things like this.. so sorry if I didn't help *DEAD
and oh Angel-chan's advice is the best *ARM *ARM *ARM
berry - April 28, 2009 05:58 AM (GMT)
ahh good advice Angel!!! *GOOD
Ambreen, you might want to wait a bit and think it out a bit more before you decide to tell him (if you do)
it's funny you guys should mention about confessing to/liking a guy who actually likes your friend because that happened to one of my really close friends recently.... i know he was upset about it be he's also very down to earth and just tried to move on and be like "well as long as he's happy"
it is difficult though *SIGH
aww Angel the guy you liked moved to NY? i'm sorry to hear it *NOOO
EdwardCullen17 - April 28, 2009 03:19 PM (GMT)
*NOOO That happened to me last time~!!! My fav teacher, who I loved, moved to Chicago~! *RUN *SIGH I was sad, but I got over him~ *SIGH
Anyways, my small crush is gone~ *DROP I think I'm moving on to liking the Cat guy again~ *DROP He is in my class and looks like a cat~ *XD In a cute way~
mikariangel - April 28, 2009 04:50 PM (GMT)
what *??
no... i was talking about kiri's friend's problme *DROP
not mine *CHOMP
Nekonya - April 28, 2009 05:01 PM (GMT)
Again!!!, you guys have spammed a while when i was gone huh *HMMM
Ambreen, i wonder who was your crush *winkwink* *GLINT
Have you guys ever been heart broken? *CHOMP , it just crossed my mind *XD
mich2009 - April 28, 2009 05:18 PM (GMT)
Yeah Mika-chan.. *HMMM and Kiri-chan asked you what will you feel if the guy you like likes your friend... *DEAD and it is bad *WIPE.. oh no no no... I should say it hurts *DEAD...
anyways.. Kiri-chan, If that will happen to me I wouldn't feel happy at all... *DUNNO Yeah I'll feel happy for my friend.. but I can't erase the fact that I like that guy too... so at the very least.. I'll feel sad too... and jealous at the same time.. *DEAD but I think *GEEK that's just natural.. since You like the guy *DUNNO... but of course.. If my friend and the guy I like really likes each other then.. I should just move on.. *DUNNO
Nevi - April 28, 2009 06:07 PM (GMT)
Angel and Mich are the best advice givers! *GOOD
You'll understand better when you're a bit older, mika. When one likes someone very much and falls in love there are also other feelings, like jealousy, involved. And it's really hard to explain them, because one has to experience them themselves.
Ambreen, hope you're feeling better and good luck with that cat guy. *XD *ROLL
EdwardCullen17 - April 28, 2009 07:57 PM (GMT)
Thanks Nevi~ *ROLL He lives close to me because he goes on the same bus as me~ *LOVE But in class, he's a total weirdo~ *XD I don't think I like him that much~ *YAWN
*GLINT Just found another guy~ *XD He's like the childhood kind of friend~ *GOOD
vampire683 - April 28, 2009 08:37 PM (GMT)
i know don't u agree mich *EYES mika u have to much evil blood going through ur body. *OMG
and ambreen u use to LOVE ur teacher how old was he. well i use to like me old student teacher i still havn't gotten over that. and to top it of there is a mini version of him in our school *CHOMP *RUN *NOOO meaning there is a guy who looks somewhat like him *RUN ....
EdwardCullen17 - April 29, 2009 12:21 AM (GMT)
But that teacher was HOT~ *NOSE *NOSE I'm pretty sure Angel's graphic teacher was hot too~ *LOVE *XD
vampire683 - April 29, 2009 12:44 AM (GMT)
wow lol i'm sure it was. mine was 2 but he wasn't a teacher, he was a student teacher u know wha ti mean right *KNIFE
mich2009 - April 29, 2009 05:44 AM (GMT)
*ARM You guys are sooooo lucky.. since you had such Hottie teachers..*GLINT
*DUNNO because when I was still in HS.. I didn't even had one single H-O-T teacher.. *DUNNO *WIPE *NOOO
mikariangel - April 29, 2009 07:50 PM (GMT)
all of my teacheres are girll *XD
vampire683 - April 29, 2009 10:50 PM (GMT)
wow all of them? ... i have only had one hot teacher in all my live which was a student teacher so not a full all other teachers are old and gay opps *OMG *RUN *DROP
mikariangel - April 30, 2009 01:25 AM (GMT)
mich2009 - April 30, 2009 02:19 AM (GMT)
*ARM but you know guys, I'm still lucky.. *ARM *ARM because I had this Chemistry Teacher that I admire.. but not that I like him or what *WIPE... I just admire his Sense of humor .. *EYES and I can say that He's also our friend.. friend of my group.. *ARM whenever we had our problems.. He's always there.. He's always giving lots of advices.. *ARM and what else.. He's my favorite teacher *ROLL when he's in our class .. He's very strict.. but when classes ends.. He's so friendly.. *ARM *ROLL
vampire683 - April 30, 2009 03:42 AM (GMT)
wow sounds mysertious *ROLL tell me more. i wonder do u really not like him *??
mich2009 - April 30, 2009 02:17 PM (GMT)
*SHOCK of course not Kiri-chan.. *SHY I mean.. He have a girlfriend.. and She's also a Teacher in our school but She's not my subject teacher.. but I know her since She's sooo friendly.. *ROLL and I didn't feel anything at all.. I mean like Jealousy, Hatred or so.. *?? so I think I really don't like him *??.. I just admire him.. *ARM He's sooo good at Chemistry *NOSE... oh well.. No doubt about it since He's our Chemistry Teacher.. but *ARM it's my favorite subject so I really admire him.. even now *ARM *ROLL
AngelIvory - April 30, 2009 03:12 PM (GMT)
@Berry nooooo he didn't move to New York *XD He went there for a trip and came back. If he moved there, I probably would have given up on him *SIGH
@Mich awww sounds nice ^^ I like chemistry too cause my teacher is cool *GEEK He gets really passionate about it *XD its quite funny, but yeah same as you, no actual attraction, it can happen guys *COOL
My graphics teacher is indeed hot *GLINT He has a nice smile too *LOVE and he's so nice its unbelievable *WIPE
mich2009 - April 30, 2009 05:31 PM (GMT)
*DUNNO Same.. My Teacher is so passionate about it.. *ARM
but He's not that hot.. *WIPE *LOLZ
and and ...*HMMM Angel-chan why is it unbelievable? *??