Title: a guy, friends, dance....
Description: wow so much...
Sora - February 4, 2008 01:24 AM (GMT)
ok...at school theres this guy who's really popular and stuff and i like him of course but im way to nervous to ask what he thinks about me and my whole class can always tell somehow who i like and he knows too but continues to tease me sometimes and my friends (mainly two) sort of get in the way by one of them going to him and asking him stuff that i didn't know that included me and the other planning to ask him to ask me to the upcoming semi dance for graduation.....in total i dont know what to do *SHOCK *RUN !!!
Cheebs - February 4, 2008 01:40 AM (GMT)
*WIPE it seems your friends have it covered for playing matchmaker for you. *POINT
Lila - February 4, 2008 01:44 AM (GMT)
what Cheebs said *LOLZ
I wonder if he will ask you *HMMM
Sora - February 4, 2008 01:45 AM (GMT)
hmmmm i have no idea which makes me nervous *SHOCK but a kid in my class who's sort of friends with him asked him if he would and he said no *NOOO but i dont think he would say stuff like that honestly to anyone so freely but i dont no *RUN
Cheebs - February 4, 2008 02:04 AM (GMT)
Yeah, since he's a guy he might've gotten embarrassed and said no anyway. You see it all the time in manga. *DUNNO
Maybe you should ask him instead? *HMMM
Sora - February 4, 2008 02:08 AM (GMT)
*SHOCK im too much of a coward *DROP and ya i understand guys a lil more than my friends do thanx to manga *XD
Cheebs - February 4, 2008 02:15 AM (GMT)
*XD
I know what you mean!!! *NOOO
Sora - February 4, 2008 02:28 AM (GMT)
but it jus makes me wish there could be a perfect guy like a manga one and that's the downside *OMG
Cheebs - February 4, 2008 02:38 AM (GMT)
Those guys don't seem pretty perfect to me. *WIPE
lilea - February 4, 2008 02:52 AM (GMT)
*XD Perfect is overrated anyways...well, usually.
But as a piece of advice, make sure that your friends don't go too overboard trying to get him to ask you because then he might get bullied into it and end up just going with you just get your friends off his back. I've been part of the matchmaker crew for a friend of mine, and it sort of backfired that way. *DROP
A little help from your friends should be okay, but you should try to ask him yourself as well if you really like him. Good luck!
chasiewbao - February 4, 2008 02:54 AM (GMT)
i am teh master at flirting XDDDDD at least i would like to think so
it has worked very well for me in the past
anyway, he knows u exist so that's good, cuz sometimes girls like guys who don't know they exist
well, if he teases u, i think he at least likes u as a friend
u gotta put the moves on him~!!!
well, subtlety is key
try to hang out with him more like, "hey, do you want to study together....?"
or you can try to broach the subject of the dance by saying:
so, you're going to the dance right?
are you going with anyone?
i'm going but i donno who i'm going with...
it would be cool if someone asked me
etc etc
good luck! when is the dance? how long do u have?
Sora - February 4, 2008 03:24 AM (GMT)
wow chasie you really seem like the master of flirting *SHOCK
and um....in june for the semi but for the valentines one this saturday i hafta to go... *XD
Sora - February 4, 2008 03:26 AM (GMT)
oh! and he often goes to either of the two girls in my class and teases them the most in front of me and he sits next to me so usually when all of us play a game he goes over to a girll and often looks at me while he is teasing her i dont no if he is trying to make me jealous or what *CHOMP and the two are my friends since mostly there is only 5 girls in my class including me two of them he never goes to but the other three including me.... *DROP
chasiewbao - February 4, 2008 03:38 AM (GMT)
how does he tease you? like what does he say?
what kind of look does he give u? is it like a glance or a really obvious look?
Sora - February 4, 2008 03:42 AM (GMT)
hmm teasing like....jumping on my desk winks at me and and stuff usually teasing in a funny way and a obvious/sometime glance look *??
chasiewbao - February 4, 2008 03:47 AM (GMT)
wow a wink? that's a big deal!!!!
he is definitely flirting with u
and if this look is really obvious, like he looks at u, u see him looking at u and then he doesn't look away, then that def means he wants u to see what he is doing
probably to gauge ur reaction
maybe the next time he does that, u should call him over, like, wave ur hand in a "come hither" motion XD and then u guys can talk
anyway if u are too afraid to ask him straight out to the dance, there are ways to make him ask u *GLINT
but i think it's good ur friends help u too
Lila - February 4, 2008 04:00 AM (GMT)
chasiewbao - February 4, 2008 04:32 AM (GMT)
lol, like asking indirect questions, flirting, saying certain things and dropping hints *XD different situations call for different modes of action
Cheebs - February 4, 2008 05:38 AM (GMT)
Yepyep~ Baobao is so awesome. *ROLL
Sora - February 4, 2008 11:51 AM (GMT)
wow thanx now i understand *SHOCK *ROLL
chasiewbao - February 4, 2008 05:11 PM (GMT)
yes i am awesome!!! *MSUPER no jk, i'm only good at flirting *DROP i wish i was good at school or something more useful
Cheebs - February 4, 2008 05:43 PM (GMT)
You're good at Japanese! *GOOD
AngelIvory - February 4, 2008 05:54 PM (GMT)
chasiewbao - February 4, 2008 08:43 PM (GMT)
LOL, yes i have followers!!! *XD
im only sorta good at japanese *WHAT
AngelIvory - February 4, 2008 08:47 PM (GMT)
Sora - February 4, 2008 11:34 PM (GMT)
.....i dont know.... *WIND
chasiewbao - February 5, 2008 05:13 AM (GMT)
lol i rule the world!!!! i wish *XD
anyway sora, u should keep us posted with updates about this guy *GLINT
Sora - February 5, 2008 10:56 PM (GMT)
ok! well so far these past two days...... the one friend that's a matchmaker like totally took charge and sat at his table and told him i wanted to go to the dance this saturday and the one near the end of the year and she was rushing things and made me and him more awkward and rushed! *RUN my other friend who's stopping and respects my wishes called him and asked him about it and he said that he was planning to ask me to the Valentine dance only so far *ROLL but now im not bothering with that friend *CHOMP
Cheebs - February 5, 2008 11:11 PM (GMT)
I wouldn't either! *OMG
But that's good to know that he is!!! *XD
chasiewbao - February 6, 2008 01:17 AM (GMT)
yay!!! i hope u have a good time but sometimes it's not good for ur friends to push a guy *NOOO
Cheebs - February 6, 2008 02:06 AM (GMT)
That's very very true....but they might have SABOTAGE in mind!! *THROW
Gotta be careful. *MGHOST
Sora - February 6, 2008 03:38 AM (GMT)
*SHOCK *RUN but now im kinda nervous about the dance... *CHOMP
lilea - February 6, 2008 05:36 AM (GMT)
I'm sure that you'll have an awesome time! Good luck!
Have you bought out a dress yet? I used to love going dress shopping. *ROLL
Cheebs - February 6, 2008 07:14 PM (GMT)
I've only ever gone to prom... *WIPE I always end up crying at dances. *RUN Even at prom I did. *DROP
chasiewbao - February 6, 2008 08:29 PM (GMT)
lol i still love going dress shopping! im chinese so i have tons or relatives and i go to tons of wedding banquets and get to dance hehe
y do u always cry!??!
Cheebs - February 6, 2008 08:34 PM (GMT)
The noise is too loud, there's too many people......
Like I went to a Placebo concert last year and had to leave before Placebo even got to play because I was crying. Too overstimulated. *DROP
AngelIvory - February 6, 2008 11:03 PM (GMT)
*WIPE there there Cheebs....
I need to get my prom dress *??
i wanted to get a chinese style one but i dont know where they sell it here *DROP
maybe i should buy one off the internet *??
Cheebs - February 6, 2008 11:38 PM (GMT)
Might as well, since you'll have to get it tailored to fit you anyway. *XD
I used my mom's old prom dresses. *ROLL
Sora - February 7, 2008 12:23 AM (GMT)
hmm well...its a casual one and jeans are allowed *DUNNO but im ok now *ROLL about it it's just the dancing part... *SHOCK
Cheebs - February 7, 2008 02:57 AM (GMT)
*WIPE They don't dance in middle school or high school. They "freak dance" *OMG